My brother has moved into the family home and won’t buy out my share
Tell Me About It: He has a free house when I have to struggle to keep a roof over my head PROBLEM: My […]
I fantasise all the time – and almost committed fraud as a result. How can I stop myself?
I fantasise all the time – and almost committed fraud as a result. How can I stop myself? PROBLEM: I would describe myself […]
Our mother is volatile and is causing rifts in our family
Tell Me About It: ‘It is obvious that she is suffering deeply. What can we do?’ PROBLEM: Our mother is in her early […]
I want to move home, but it could be dangerous for us as a gay couple to live there
Tell Me About It: ‘I have a job opportunity I’d like to accept, but it would mean hiding who I am PROBLEM: […]
Will my ex-husband ever regret leaving me and my two kids for his younger co-worker?
Tell me about it: This was something I had never seen coming. I thought we were happy PROBLEM: Will my ex-husband ever regret […]
I lost my job because I was accused of being a bully
Tell Me About It: ‘I’m afraid to look for a new job. I fear that I’m a bad person’ PROBLEM: Recently, I […]
How do we disinvite my future husband’s family from our wedding?
Tell Me About It: I can’t have them at our wedding, but the ramifications will be permanent PROBLEM: The question sounds a bit […]
Since my illness, my marriage has ended, I’ve lost out on work, and my appearance has changed
Tell Me About It: ‘I feel down and hopeless since surviving cancer. I fear I am not living’ PROBLEM: I was diagnosed with […]
My husband is unemployed. Where will he go if I leave him for my business partner?
Tell Me About It: ‘He’s not the man I married: he lacks ambition and takes money from me’ PROBLEM: My husband is a […]
The type of pornography that my partner watches upsets me
Tell Me About It: ‘The frequency at which he views porn while in work is also worrying’ PROBLEM: Both myself and my partner, […]
I have realised during lockdown that I don’t like my wife
Tell Me About It: I find her cynicism obnoxious, and we have little in common except our children PROBLEM: I have been in […]
How am I going to meet someone who does not want to have sex?
Tell Me About It: I’d like a relationship with a male or female, but I’d prefer it without sex PROBLEM: I am concerned […]
I can hear the next-door neighbours shouting vicious abuse at each other
Tell Me About It: The level of aggression has risen to an almost unbearable level PROBLEM: I think the possibility of domestic violence […]
I think my husband has a drug problem, but he says that’s nonsense
Tell Me About It: His moods are unstable, his spending out of control, and he sleeps very little PROBLEM: My husband’s best friend […]
My parents should have told me I have a different genetic mother
Tell Me About It: I’m curious to meet the egg donor, and I wonder if I have siblings PROBLEM: My mother has recently […]
I’m afraid my wife is in denial about our financial situation
Tell Me About It: ‘She’s digging us into a hole that we might not get out of’ PROBLEM: I am struggling financially. I […]
My mother-in-law’s bad behaviour towards me has caused a family rift
Tell Me About It: My husband wants nothing to do with her unless she apologises PROBLEM: My mother-in-law is mostly a fantastic, […]
My son is increasingly opting out of life
Tell Me About It: My family are undermining how I handle my son’s lack of direction PROBLEM: My son failed his college repeat […]
Is my wealthy boyfriend being taken advantage of by his long-time friends?
Tell Me About It: They often stay in the guest house of his lakefront home free of charge PROBLEM: I have a […]
My homophobic husband has banned my daughter’s girlfriend from our home
Tell Me About It: There is emotional and psychological damage being inflicted PROBLEM: My husband is severely homophobic. My daughter (mid-teens) has […]